The Single Woman’s 30-Day Blogging Challenge

I happen to come across this challenge and I thought I'd give it a try. Now I am only a creative blogger but I thought having a topic to blog about will spark my creativity. So let's try this :)

The Single Woman’s 30-Day Blogging Challenge

1)      Your response to everyone’s favorite question: “And why are YOU still single?”
I'm single because I just got out of a long term serious relationship. I am exploring the single life while being in the last year of college. Figuring out who I am, the person I want to be, the future I want to have, and the person I want to be with. Single because I am not ready for a relationship at this point. I don't want to get to know someone all over again, get past all the awkward phasing, all the first dates, first kiss, first i-love-you's. I enjoy this time I have to myself because I can do whatever the fuck I want, with no one to judge me. I can be selfish and live for myself, to yolo and enjoy the moment to the fullest, not worrying about texting someone constantly, worrying about their well-being, putting their needs on top of mine. I enjoy getting extremely dolled up to everything, because I want to feel hot, and desired. I don't have game, but I don't mind, for I am not trying to get at anyone. I am merely a good girl, trying to have fun. And the guy will come, when the time is right. :)

2)      Describe a moment or a day when being single really sucked

When a mutual friend posts an picture on instagram about her anniversary with her boyfriend and how being long distance really sucks but seeing him makes all the difference. When they are so happy together and happily in love. When everyone else is shipping thing. When you check the number of likes she had and you see that your ex liked it too. And you wonder if he's thinking of you and how it could have been the two of you, instead of just two lonely confused souls. That is when being single absolutely sucks because you wish you were back in time with your ex lover enjoying the moment. And now you are paving your own paths by yourself. I wonder if I ever cross your mind as much as you do in mine.

3)      Describe a moment or a day when being single was really awesome.

4)      Your biggest fear as a single person.

5)      The biggest misconception you think people have about single life

6)      Sound off on the quote “Every woman has the exact love life she wants”

7)      Where you are in your life vs. where you thought you would be at this point

8)      Five things that are most important to you in a future mate

9)      Your favorite “weird/funny single behavior” – Anything you do that is uniquely YOU and that living alone allows you to do (For example, I sometimes dance around the house with my cat to Frank Sinatra)

10)   Google the meaning of your name and talk about how it fits or doesn’t fit you

11)   Your worst/funniest/most embarrassing date

12)   Your proudest accomplishment

13)   Describe how you met the last person you texted and talk about your friendship/relationship

14)   Describe the last moment you felt really, truly blissful

15)   Narrate a conversation between you and someone in your life who you never had closure with (a friend, an ex, a family member, etc.) What would you say? What would they say? What outcome would you hope for?

16)   If you planted a time capsule right now of your life to be opened in 20 years, what would be in it?

17)   What are your spiritual beliefs and how do they impact your relationships/relationship status?

18)   If you could have a conversation with yourself in high school, what would you say?

19)   What is something about you that people would be surprised to learn?

20)   Describe your most difficult breakup and what you learned from it

21)   How would you pitch a reality show about yourself? To what network?

22)   What fictional character in a movie, tv show, or book do you identify with and why?

23)   Talk about a moment when you got annoyed with a married friend, a person in a relationship, or a person with kids (Be honest! No judgment!)

24)   If you could relive ONE day of your life, what would it be? And would you change anything?

25)   Describe a moment when you “paid it forward.” What happened and how did it feel?

26)   Name a song that makes you cry every time you hear it and why

27)   Talk about something that you really, really, really love about yourself.

28)   Describe a moment when you made a big, bold move. In any area of life: Career, Love, etc.

29)   Who is your closest or most special friend that you’ve never met and what do they mean to you? How did you cross paths? Talk about how you “met” them: Facebook, Twitter, an online support group, etc.

30)   Write a letter to your future mate saying whatever you want to say.